What is friend? What is the true friend? I dont judge people very much,and I don't care how they judge me since I raised in judgment. However, I DO care and judge people who around me and be friends potentially. I had a lot of friends during my whole life, different social circle, different level,different family background. Some of them used me, some of them tricked me, some of them hated me, and of course, there're some of them liked me, loved me,protected me and helped me out. Some we lost contact forever, some we maybe couldn't recognize each other now, some we just became strangers again, and surely, there're someones we still hang in a very close relationship, and ascended to kinship. Because I treat friendship as marriageship,so I'm very picky and never make my decision at randon, while really for a long while, maybe one year, two years or years. In the past, I used to ask myself that whom I could go with and who would accepte my cryings and complainings unconditionally, of course my hubby is the right one, however,there must still some other ones who stand upon for me. I don't risk to marriage, so neither friendship. While my wedding party proved my real friends in my life, which made me so lucky and happy.I really touched by them for their coming all the way and brought me their best wishes and true happiness to me. They showed their support to me, becasue they really known me always.

First, would be my best girl&classmate since we were 16.We fought, I felt unhappy for her might not coming and straight excuse of it, but it turned out that when she's with me, I feel so happy and count on her. We really have a very funky relationship, worry about each other, care about each other, hate each other, well, like a couple. I hope from my bottom of heart that she will find her Mr. Right one day. I don't want to push her, but I understand how hard and it takes so long time to discover him, not today, not tomorrow,but whole life long. She's not good at English, though I said so much words to her, I still hope she will not know about it, it's better for us.

Lizzy,younger than me while much grown up than I do. She's sweet and acts like a big sister to me. She's so smart, a great job, a handsome and intelligent husband who loves her so much and romantic, a very adorable bright baby son. She's the one always gives me courage and comfort,she helps me a lot with handling many issues. Lizzy, it so surprised me that you still kept our joint gym card,that's sweet and so amazing! The days when we hanging around in SISU were the most unforgetable happy moments in my mind, you made my hard studies at that time so easy. Thank you dear Lizzy.

Chenyu, my older sister. We've met since Feb.2002. I still remembered the days I spent night at your home for my law studies at the Hohai university. We talked a lot, about family, kids, husbands. We also went to the market together to pick the food that I liked, and you cooked them for me. I also still remembered that one evening after the exams, I went out to dinner with the classmates without telling you. After the dinner we went to the karaokey and bar, around nine at night, you called me to make sure that I was ok and safe. I felt so sorry for not letting you know and made you so worry about me. You are a proud woman and great mother, you also a wonderful wife. You gave up your successful career and returned to the family to take care of your son and support your husband without any complaining. It's been almost ten years and you still enjoy it and at the same time you also found a new world for yourself.I feel so proud of having such a great housewife-mother-career woman model in my life. By the way, I really like your new hair style, you look so young and pretty.

Emma, we actually new, however, we caught each other very fast. We have similiar personalities. I like your style. Hanging with you, I always feel relaxing and horn or spicy. I like your funny stories that happened during your touring guide career. You are a wild girl in word, shy in heart. One of the most enjoyable thing with you is that we can talk about dirties, and very sexy, hanging out dinner and having a sip of drink, so wild! I'm gonna do that more often with you as long as you took off from your work. Tell you another thing that I never told you before, that actually your English name once I thought for many years to name my daughter, which it turned out I gave it to my niece a few years ago. So Emma is my favorite. Thank you very much for buying the tickets of the Nest Master Garden with a tourgroup price, and also thank you for your helping me during my wedding party. You are so nice. And we will have dinner again soon.

Mindy, so sorry that I didn't see your message on my wedding day,of course I would love to have your friends to attend my wedding party with you. I knew you are bad at directions just like me. And I also knew that you've worked so hard with your new teaching work. I really appreciated what you've done to my school,I am very proud of you and you are growing up faster. I always want you to have a splendid future,and I'm also very sorry that I didn't keep my promise to keep you staying with my school.For some reasons that you understood that I had to close it right now. I like having Japanese food with you now and then, and of course, it will always on me.

Julia,Cheryl, Michelle, I would haven't known you girls if I had not met Vyvy. You are firstly his dear friends in SH. And I'm so thankful for him for introduced us to know each other. You are so wonderful girls with different talents and impressive styles. You made me feel so young and how exciting life is. You all have the dreams that you are pursuing and working very hard on them. You give me inspire to light the life much brilliant. Thank you girls, your coming made Vyvy so happy and exciting, and actually you three would be the ones that completely witnessed our love journey in the past three years. You got the word to judge us,lol. Thank you girls, came all the way to our wedding party and if I didn't keep my eyes on you often, please don't blame me. At least we will have dinner again with Jack,his son Andy and another friend Spencer soon.

And Kiwi, my pretty lovely maid. I will talk to you soon with Takeo.

And other dear girlfriends, you are really my treasures in my box. In my whole life, I never expected any woman show her liking to me, but you made it,and won my heart.

Thank you girls.